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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Oh and deepfreeze thanks for the insight...You're a guy right?
Yes I am.
Hahaha, I could be a sociopath. Who knows?
It's weird logic I know. Did you even mention anything about his chart? I don't remember.
Me? I can smash the place up and walk away. I don't necessarily plan and plot it all out but I've figured it out over time.
It serves two purposes:
One is, I can disappear and bury all of that stuff. As if they don't exist. Out of sight, out of mind. Even though that's not EXACTLY true those feelings can be buried and try to move on.
The second thing is, by being a butthole and "smashing the place up" it drives them away, ensuring that I do get that space. If they're mad at me or hate me then they won't come bugging me.
If they're around or we try to be friends then I'm simply reminded of what was lost. The pain of it just lingers on.
I did that one woman about 6 years ago. After about a year we were good friends again. Then just recently she wanted to get back together. I felt kind of bad but I can't. I can already see that nothing would be different.
Well anyway, I just thought I'd throw that spin on it. That may not even be true for him. It's possible though.